This!

I try hard to create my own content and put my own thoughts here on this blog. Sometimes, someone you have followed and use as a role model in your chastity journey writes something that speaks volumes. When I first started down this path four years ago , one of the first blogs I found … More This!

Struggling

For the first time since we implemented chastity, I am struggling mentally with the confinement. It is not due to the usual physically driven issues: swelling of vasectomy scar tissue or little sore spots around the base ring. No, it’s full on “I want this damn thing off and want it to disappear!” struggling. I’m … More Struggling

Two for Two

Talk about a monster tease!  Yesterday was just that and I am very much dopamine challenged.  It has rolled over into today in a frustrating sort of way. As I was going back upstairs to wake up MrsL I was surprised to find her already climbing out of bed.  She said she had been laying … More Two for Two

Longing for Locktober

Well, yet another bout with bronchitis has me drained and unable to talk from coughing.  I did go to the doctor and have started the first round of antibiotics (it usually takes 2 rounds).  My ribs and back ache from coughing and I wince from the slightest touch from MrsL….it aggravates me.  But that’s not … More Longing for Locktober

Lessons in Chastity 

After several weeks of “devotional sex”, MrsL ordered me back in her Steelheart Saturday.  I was excited but she seems a bit melancholy about it for some reason. Maybe I was overreacting? I had been really moody and grumpy all day Friday. Our downstairs AC is out and the locally owned HVAC guy MrsL wanted … More Lessons in Chastity