Learning to Sleep

Warning…non sexy post. I have fought my doctor for years on doing a sleep study.  Yes, I have had a snoring problem over the years that gets more pronounced when I don’t work out…because I gain weight.  Usually, when the weight goes away the snoring problem subsides.  Earlier this year, after the series of bronchitis … More Learning to Sleep

Am I A Job

In a recent comment on my last post, Longing for Locktober, Carly Quinn opined: … This post really has me pondering something I worry about. What happens if he becomes a job? What if this turns into something I have to do, not something that is fun to do? What if he needs more and … More Am I A Job

Roller Coaster

It has been awhile since I sat down and penned a post to my blog.  I haven’t had the energy or desire to write for some time due to some relationship “bumps in the road.”  Take a deep breath….MrsL and I are doing fine….but it has been a bumpy road the past couple of weeks. … More Roller Coaster

This Week Was Weird

As the summer days rushed through the calendar ending with 21 back at school for his senior year a week ago; the passage of the summer gave me pause to really set back and think about things this past week.  Of course, the week ended with a marathon day of doctor’s visits for me leading … More This Week Was Weird

Private Masseuse 

We’ve been talking about one of these for months. I checked out letgo when I got home Thursday and found this gem. Just received MrsL’s text that she is in the car and will be dropped off first! Hope she enjoys what I have planned: dark room, soft candles, massage music from Itunes, and a … More Private Masseuse 

Shoulder issues

This is not going to be a sexy post.  Stay tuned as MrsL is getting home Sunday and I am planning quite the welcome home for her.  This is one of those boring medical post about the ongoing issues with my shoulder. I have dealt with right shoulder pain since 1986 when as a strapping … More Shoulder issues

Talking it out

Even with all of the fun, teasing, and being back in the Steelheart, this past week has been really tough.  Tough physically. Tough mentally. And yes, tough emotionally for both MrsL and me. It all began Monday night after MrsL ordered me back in the Steelheart.  I was happy but I could sense she wasn’t.  … More Talking it out

Crazy Week

It has been a long crazy week and the weekend will be way too short! The week started with MrsL letting me out of the Steelheart late Sunday night because I had an early morning appointment with my urologist.  Good news there…PSA level back down to normal but still have BPH.  Good news from that…now … More Crazy Week

Everything is good

Sorry I haven’t written in a few days. I am still here. MrsL still is leaving me unlocked and we have discussed the concept of Devotional Sex as I have gone over two years without masturbating. Don’t get me wrong, I still CRAVE the feeling of being in the Steelheart and want to buy a … More Everything is good