Hello, I am The Chaste Cyclist. I am a normal 50 year old guy with a high pressure job that loves to be submissive to his wife. I have been married for 28 years to the wonderful MrsL and have had an ongoing interest in male chastity. Let’s get some specifics out of the way:
- I am not a professional cyclist…I just like bikes and love to ride.
- What started out as a bit of a kink has developed in to a realization that enforced male chastity and orgasm control has brought a new found passion to our marriage. How, well when I stopped pleasuring myself, which I did too frequently, and asked MrsL to control when/if I had an orgasm we rediscovered the passion we had as newlyweds.
- We played with chastity several times over the past 10 years, very unsuccessfully. Why, it was still more of a kink then and MrsL wasn’t getting anything out of those attempts. The longest period we ever went before putting the chastity device de jour away was 3-4 weeks.
- Now, my sole focus is on keeping MrsL happy in all aspects of our life: sexually (of course), helping around the house, and being a better husband in general. I listen to her more! I massage her feet every night I am at home! Basically, I always put her first.
- I’m adding this bullet point in July 2017 after nearly two years of orgasm denial. MrsL seems to be favoring more Devotional Sex than enforced chastity. She has really acquired a hunger for teasing me minus a device; however, I still crave being locked. Even with my cravings to be locked in metal I let that decision be hers and am honored that she now trust me to not masturbate.
I have also used this blog to chronicle the journey of my oldest son through addiction and recovery. Being able to write about my feelings through this journey is very much a stress relief for me. I will also write about my many travels around the world. I get to travel for my job and love to write about the people and places I’ve been.
Thanks for stopping by my blog. I hope you enjoy.