Who is the Chaste Cyclist

Hello, I am The Chaste Cyclist. I am a normal 50 year old guy with a high pressure job that loves to be submissive to his wife.  I have been married for 29 years to the wonderful MrsL and have had an ongoing interest in male chastity.  Let’s get some specifics out of the way:

  • I am not a professional cyclist…I just like bikes and love to ride.
  • What started out as a bit of a kink has developed in to a realization that enforced male chastity and orgasm control has brought a new found passion to our marriage.  How, well when I stopped pleasuring myself, which I did too frequently, and asked MrsL to control when/if I had an orgasm we rediscovered the passion we had as newlyweds.
  • We played with chastity several times over the past 10 years, very unsuccessfully.  Why, it was still more of a kink then and MrsL wasn’t getting anything out of those attempts.  The longest period we ever went before putting the chastity device de jour away was 3-4 weeks.
  • Now, my sole focus is on keeping MrsL happy in all aspects of our life: sexually (of course), helping around the house, and being a better husband in general. I listen to her more! I massage her feet every night I am at home! Basically, I always put her first.
  • I’m adding this bullet point in July 2017 after nearly two years of orgasm denial.  MrsL seems to be favoring more Devotional Sex than enforced chastity.  She has really acquired a hunger for teasing me minus a device; however, I still crave being locked.  Even with my cravings to be locked in metal I let that decision be hers and am honored that she now trust me to not masturbate.

I have also used this blog to chronicle the journey of my oldest son through addiction and recovery.  Being able to write about my feelings through this journey is very much a stress relief for me.  I will also write about my many travels around the world.  I get to travel for my job and love to write about the people and places I’ve been.

Thanks for stopping by my blog.  I hope you enjoy.

10 thoughts on “Who is the Chaste Cyclist

  1. I have just discovered you on Twitter and your blog. I look forward to following you and reading your blog. I wear a chastity device to discipline myself against pleasuring myself. What I notice is that when it is on the relief of not constantly thinking of sex takes a huge burden off my shoulders.


  2. Do you have any recommendations about cycling while locked? I found it to be uncomfortable when mountain biking and a bit worried about the safety aspect of it. Any thoughts?

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