Yes, I’m Still Here

It has been awhile since my last post and a lot of things have changed…and a lot of things have stayed the same.  I sort of lost interest in this blog for awhile and have found a new energy to get back to writing.  I have the finale of last year’s series of post “A First Time Tryst” and this year’s post “The Lair” and will get them uploaded later this week.  I think you will enjoy the way they end….at least I hope so.  I haven’t even been on my kinky Twitter for over a week.  I guess I just needed a break.

What has changed?  Well, 23 had his heart broken by his fiance and while we hurt for him we are quietly happy.  How can that be you ask?  Well, he is a giver and still very much learning how to be in a relationship.  She is; unfortunately, a taker and manipulator.  This all came to a head after she graduated college earlier this year and basically refused to find a job.  She wanted to just find an apartment in Charleston, have me and MrsL co-sign for them, and then “eventually find something I think I would like to do…”  The apartment they found…you ask…well…it was rent controlled/subsidized housing that was going to start at $800/month then increase monthly based on his income to up to $1600/month over a 6 month period. I ran a crime stats report for the neighborhood and the 18 month trends were frightening:  1 in 7 people were victim of a crime against property (theft, break-ins, vehicle damage, etc.) and 1 in 17 people were the victim of a crime against persons (assault, battery, sexual assaults, etc).  She wouldn’t even agree to stay at her Dad’s house here in town and work to save money.  She kept asking for a “budget” to plan her wedding and we kept referring her back to her Dad…who told the couple “you two have a wedding to pay for…I am not paying for any of it.”  There is so much more I could write about but will not.  She gave him back the engagement ring and is moving on…to what…we are not sure.  23 is having a difficult time but is going to counseling to deal with this and finally deal with the pent up emotions from the year’s of 28’s drug addiction and the things 28 did to him during that time.  Hopefully, 23 will have some good life lessons from this.

As for 28, he and his girlfriend are now engaged with a wedding date of October 2nd 2020.  They are closing on a home this week and appear to be very happy.

As for MrsL and me, the kink has surged and lulled over the past year.  As of today, I am back in her Steelheart and we are working our way back to a full fledged Wive Led Marriage.  She has been giving me orgasms at the rate of one every 2 weeks and I was getting lazy and accustomed to having them…ergo…ignoring her wants, needs, and desires.  I had stopped cleaning, cooking, and courting her.  I don’t have any air travel scheduled for at least a month (of course that could change) and we are going to Vegas for her birthday weekend in September to see Donnie & Marie (she LOVES both of them and they are ending their residency in November).  Stay tuned.

Thanks for hanging around even though I wasn’t writing.

2 thoughts on “Yes, I’m Still Here

  1. Dear Chaste Cyclist and family,
    Thank you for the update on your life. I understand how you are relieved about the broken engagement, and of course also sad. Very glad that 23 has taken the decision to do counselling. Hope he will be able to sort himself out, with the support of his family now.
    a good relationship is constant work and reflection by oneself and as a couple. So sometimes you let things slide, life, work, family takes over. any good D/s relationship needs reflection, and sometimes a break. as long as you two do not build up resentment and do not talk, everything is good. Have a good time in Vegas and concentrate on your family. Your internet family will wait for you.


    1. Thank you so much for the kind words. 23 will figure things out and will be better and stronger for it.

      MrsL and I are great. Our WLM ebbs and flows with the outside dynamics of my job. A couple of weeks at home and her catching me fondling the unlocked penis, been purposely trying to get caught, ignited her dominant side again. It has been nice.

      Thanks again.


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