I am at a complete loss and searching for advice and input.
I described last week how the silicone Doc Johnson and nJoy plugs both refused to stay engaged. I thought maybe it was too much lubricant coupled with some Boy Butter as the culprit. Well, yesterday and today both I’ve had the same issue…BUT (no pun intended) only with the silicone plug!
Yesterday morning, in an attempt to surprise MrsL I decided to put in a plug when I woke up. After a brief thorough cleaning, I grabbed the nJoy large plug to see if it would stay in place. The nJoy is smaller than the Doc Johnson silicone so my hopes were that it would stay put. Hoping to learn from last week I only applied enough lube to be comfortable minus the Boy Butter. I gently worked the tip past the sphincter to get it set in place. Much to my pleasurable surprise it stayed put! I wore it for two hours.
I was letting MrsL sleep as long as she wished and decided I would not say anything when she came down. After a brief brunch together I went upstairs to start on my honey-do list for the day. Since the nJoy had stayed in place I decided to switch to the larger silicone plug.
The switch went well prompting me to send MrsL a Snapchat of the DJ plug seated in place with a little message asking is she approved. She quickly replied “just don’t get too sore”. GREAT!! My plan seemed to be working…more anal play tonight I thought to myself!
A few minutes after the switch and Snapchat exchange my body, in what I can only call a rebellion, began rejecting the silicone! I clenched and pressed to the point of cramps in my ass cheeks to no avail. Every time I relaxed my body began rejecting that plug!
I tried putting the nJoy metal plug back in place and it stayed!
So, I am thinking my body doesn’t like the silicone. There is a bit of mild itching associated with its use the past two times. I know I had to stop using the Bon4 silicone due to incessant itching as well. Allergies?
Thoughts and feedback appreciated. Thanks