Family time

If you follow my Twitter you saw this last night…so apologies for the repeat.   We have had a great time with the family in town.  I am very fortunate in that I have a great relationship with my in-laws…well all of them except one of MrsL’s sisters…but that can be a post all by … More Family time

Thankfully horny

Ok, so not your normal Thanksgiving Day post but it is a fitting post.   First, I am so very thankful for my family.  It has been a difficult year watching our oldest son struggle with a horrible addiction.  He has now been clean and sober for several months.  I realize each day is a … More Thankfully horny

Normal is awesome

Well, I felt like I had to tell MrsL about my struggles yesterday and while she was understanding she reminded me of one simple thing….she is in control of when or if the penis is touched!  That was all I needed to snap out of the funk I was in for the past couple of … More Normal is awesome

The pendulum swings

My last two or three post and comment on Thumper’s blog have all centered on how I have really started to accept my new status as a chaste husband.  That really hasn’t changed.  I love who I am.  I am fully focused on MrsL and not just sexually.  We are each other’s best friend. We … More The pendulum swings

Cotton PJ’s

As I wrote about last night, I spent all day with MrsL helping at her last vendor sales event for the year.  It was probably one of the best days we have had in a long time.  Playful, energetic, and simply awesome.  There have been many great days in our years together: our wedding day, … More Cotton PJ’s

Quality Time

MrsL has ran her own home based business for over 10 years.  She has had really good years and really lean years.  If I think back to some of the lean years I can tie them to some of the years when I was being selfish and not helping around the house or showing her … More Quality Time

Keep Calm…

I found this on my Twitter feed this morning and thought it was more than fitting: This really is what my mantra in life has become and if I am being honest should have always been….keep my wonderful Wife (now Keyholder) pleased.  There is no need to rehash the past but you can read it … More Keep Calm…