I just got off of my Thursday night FaceTime call with MrsL to take off the metal lock and put on the plastic seal for my return flight tomorrow afternoon. During the call MrsL kept asking me what was wrong, why are you not smiling, why, why, why. I knew I felt “different” over the … More Feeling disconnected
Figuring out the nuances of travel through airports while locked in chastity; especially in my case, is pretty easy. As I chronicled earlier this week, MrsL’s travel process works great for us. As a I corporate fraud investigator for a global company, not only do I travel a lot I also deal with the law … More Metal Detectors
First, let me rant about something definitely not chastity related….today’s modern bus station…oh I mean airport. Flying on a Monday as a business traveler is crazy enough. I mean being out there with the thousands upon thousands of business people is bad enough some with their holier than thou smugness, some that despite flying every … More Travel….
So, last week while unlocked for shaving and cleaning I knicked myself. Yes, MrsL still allows me to clean and shave myself; although, she will tie me down sometimes to shave me and uses that as a prolonged tease & denial session. My mistake when it happened was not informing MrsL and putting my Bon4 … More Dealing with irritation…
Discipline. Is it a lifestyle choice that has to be included in an enforced male chastity household? Is it just another kink adding spice to a rediscovered and energized sex life? Or, is it simply just what it is….discipline? Those were the questions running through my mind a couple of months back when MrsL broached … More Leaving Her Mark
Today, I had my annual skin cancer check up. That entails a complete body exam: top to bottom every little nook and cranny inspected by the doctor. As with all of my doctor’s appointments, MrsL allows me to be unlocked. She has mentioned that as we progress the “regular” doctor’s visits that will not involve … More The Test before the exam
In previous attempts at enforced chastity, MrsL and I have tried everything: the dice game, the orgasm ratio game, throwing a dart at a calendar, etc to decide when/if I would be allowed an orgasm. To be honest, I never liked any of them. If the dice rolled out a large number I immediately lost … More To set a date or not….
It is funny. How we believe we are fully committed to something but can find sneaky little ways to defeat the system only to finally realize the only person being fooled is yourself. When I am not on the road traveling, which I do at least 2 weeks a month, I not only love to … More Crossfit and Male Chastity
Welcome to my blog. Where do I start…at the beginning. Probably not a great idea an initial post as it would take an epic the length of War and Peace; however, I will give you the Reader’s Digest version. I have had an interest in male chastity for about 10 years. I have asked, begged, … More Where do I start….