Learning to Sleep

Warning…non sexy post. I have fought my doctor for years on doing a sleep study.  Yes, I have had a snoring problem over the years that gets more pronounced when I don’t work out…because I gain weight.  Usually, when the weight goes away the snoring problem subsides.  Earlier this year, after the series of bronchitis … More Learning to Sleep

A Little Reward

Sunday was fabulous!  We haven’t had that much fun in weeks. MrsL has been sleeping in our guest room the past few weeks.  My snoring has gotten out of control so she tries going to bed with me before inevitably escaping to the guest room.  I have done the sleep study and have a CPAP … More A Little Reward

Am I A Job

In a recent comment on my last post, Longing for Locktober, Carly Quinn opined: … This post really has me pondering something I worry about. What happens if he becomes a job? What if this turns into something I have to do, not something that is fun to do? What if he needs more and … More Am I A Job

Longing for Locktober

Well, yet another bout with bronchitis has me drained and unable to talk from coughing.  I did go to the doctor and have started the first round of antibiotics (it usually takes 2 rounds).  My ribs and back ache from coughing and I wince from the slightest touch from MrsL….it aggravates me.  But that’s not … More Longing for Locktober

Roller Coaster

It has been awhile since I sat down and penned a post to my blog.  I haven’t had the energy or desire to write for some time due to some relationship “bumps in the road.”  Take a deep breath….MrsL and I are doing fine….but it has been a bumpy road the past couple of weeks. … More Roller Coaster

Life Rolls On

It has been quite a while since my last detailed post.  We have been busy dealing with several issues as well as trying to reestablish our kinky lifestyle.  None of it has been particularly easy. First, a complete update on 26’s status.  Last November, at the 2 year point of his 4 year revocation of … More Life Rolls On

New horizons

I have a much more detailed post I am working on. In the interim I have to write, briefly, about what happened this morning! MrsL has always been hesitant to engage in playful spanking let alone serious discipline. Sure, there were a couple of really good discipline sessions over a year ago but since then … More New horizons

This Week Was Weird

As the summer days rushed through the calendar ending with 21 back at school for his senior year a week ago; the passage of the summer gave me pause to really set back and think about things this past week.  Of course, the week ended with a marathon day of doctor’s visits for me leading … More This Week Was Weird