The Ginger Crush

I always enjoy people watching; especially, watching hot guys…discreetly! Last night I got caught and almost acted on my urges. I got off the elevator after work and entered the hallway to my room. I looked up and saw a very hot ginger walking toward me in work out clothes…complete with a large clearly outlined … More The Ginger Crush

No Locktober…yet

I absolutely love the Wonderful MrsL.  Even though I miss the friendly confines of her Steelheart being securely locked in place and am still quite conflicted about being unlocked all of this time, MrsL is definitely still in charge.  I had to be up early today for an early morning conference call and was in … More No Locktober…yet


As I was updating my Current Status page this morning, a page I woefully neglect when not at home, I realized MrsL has left me out of chastity now for 24 days. ¬†With the constant air travel coupled with the irritation issues from the EvotionWearables travel device and going to high school and college football … More Conflicted

What do we do now…

MrsL woke up this morning to a missed text from the site director at 25’s sober living residence from last night. It seems he missed curfew and check in last night…and the other residents said he was at his “other apartment.” Obviously we were not happy. So, after her own doctors appointment headed down to … More What do we do now…

You Have Earned…

Saturday was a whirlwind kind of day. I’ve been putting off some yard work and other little projects and knew I needed to finish them before Monday when my next round of several straight weeks of travel set in. Needless to say, I was on a mission.  However; being empty nesters, we had a very … More You Have Earned…

Trying times

I guess I really will never truly be ready for 25 to venture out of treatment! In the back of my mind, even with a solid few weeks of working on my own “recovery” each next step still scares the hell out of me!  He has been in sober living for 2 months with some … More Trying times

Crazy weekend

We had a crazy busy weekend made more difficult for me due to a massive unexplained headache and a bout of vertigo that is still lingering. Most importantly, we were together as a family tomorrow to celebrate MrsL’s birthday!  Friday night we drove over to see our nephew’s high school football game. They were undefeated … More Crazy weekend